Alpha Up!

Alpha Up!

Oct 30, 2013

Welcome to today’s installment of Alpha Up! Without further adieu…   Question 1: I’m letting this girl from college stay in my dorm room until she gets her own because something happened with her living situation. I’ve had sex with her before but this time things seem different and she won’t talk to me much. She claims to be sick and has been skyping some other guy for the past two days. What should I do to change this dynamic? Answer: This time things seem different because her attention is elsewhere, namely the guy she’s Skyping. This doesn’t mean you can’t get some action, it just means you’ve got to dominate her time and attention more than he is. The problem is that she’s already gotten what she wanted, namely a place to stay. This is why I always advice guys to “get theirs first”. You’ve got to ask yourself what’s in it for you when women are seeking arrangements like this. Why are you investing (in the form of giving her a place to stay) without any investment from her in return? This is a very “beta” action, that is giving without receiving anything in return. Sure it’s a nice thing to do, but what about your own wants and needs are being met by this arrangement? My Red Pill take on this, as I explained above, is to make it known, either overtly or implied, that she’s going to have to ante up if she wants whatever it is from you. Now that you’re already in this situation here’s a few things you can do to really drive home the point you….expected certain things from this arrangement. First and foremost you’ve got to escalate physically. You’re already in isolation because you’re living together, so that’s in your favor. A statement of intent will also weigh heavily in your favor, such as saying something she does or is wearing is “sexy”. (followed by that physical escalation) She’ll probably shoot you down at first, but this is to be expected. Don’t be phased by it, just act cool, but try again a few minutes later. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. If it really...