Day 4. Talk

Day 4. Talk

Aug 6, 2013

Talk to 10 people. This should be easy. You’re already going to the gym today. There are plenty of people there. Today you will talk to 10 people that you do not know. Conversations should last around 30 seconds (if not longer). This will be easy for some of you. This might even be a normal day for some of you. Heck, some of you surpass 10 easily. Learning to be a source of confidence is part of becomming a man. Much like seddit encourages approaching women regularly, we will learn to break down any anxiety about talking to strangers at all. Men or women, you will have a conversation with 10 people today. Here are some easy ones to get you started: Talk about the game with guys at the gym. Talk about your difficulty in food choice with people in grocery store aisles. Talk about something funny in the news with somebody at the bar. This might seem like basic shit. And it is. But unless you can do it, and be sure you can, then you cannot become a man. For the introverts: Doesn’t matter. Deal with the anxiety. Part of being a man is doing what needs to be done even when you don’t like it. If you haven’t gotten the book yet, you’re running out of time. http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/16r5fi/day_4_talk_to_10_people/ redpillschoolRedPillSchool is the head moderator of the forum http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill and and a fantastic saxophone player.More...

Day 3. Say No

Day 3. Say No

Aug 6, 2013

If you’re following the plan as you should be, today is your day off from your workout. (unless you’re on M-W-F schedule, in which case carry on). Today’s exercise is simple. Say no. We all have women in our lives who we have previously attempted to engage romantically, with no luck. Yet, they manage to stay in our lives. Maybe on facebook. Maybe at work. Maybe at home. Maybe in your group of friends. Today, if any of them approach you for a favor. Anything as simple as “hold my purse” or “can you help me with…” just say no. Do not give an excuse. Do not try to smooth this over. Just say no. If they ask why, just say “I’m busy, sorry.” Learning to say no takes practice. As you become good at it, your Yes will become more powerful. Document your experiences here in the comments. Required reading today http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/16om5e/the_red_pill_room_mike_makes_a_breakthrough/   —– http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/16ou2n/day_3_say_no/ redpillschoolRedPillSchool is the head moderator of the forum http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill and and a fantastic saxophone player.More...

Day 2: Workout Plan

Day 2: Workout Plan

Aug 6, 2013

If you don’t already have a muscle building exercise, this will become your new workout plan. Expect to do this three days a week. No excuses. Beginners start here: http://www.aworkoutroutine.com/the-beginner-weight-training-workout-routine/ Workout A Squats 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Bench Press 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Rows 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Workout B Deadlifts 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Pull-Ups (or Lat Pull-Downs) 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Overhead Shoulder Press 3 sets of 8-10 reps. 2 minutes rest between sets. Required reading Before the end of this week, you must obtain a copy of The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar It’s available on Amazon. There’s a free pdf floating around somewhere too if you’re good at google. Do these things. If anybody has other workout plans they want to share, please do so here. http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/16m983/day_2_your_new_workout_plan_start_it/ redpillschoolRedPillSchool is the head moderator of the forum http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill and and a fantastic saxophone player.More...

Day 1 : Get a Gym

Day 1 : Get a Gym

Aug 6, 2013

This should be an easy task today. It’s very straight forward. Most of you should already have this one done. Today’s mission is to find a gym, and sign up. But redpill, I’m broke! No ifs ands or buts. It’s time to get the fuck into shape you whiney god damned child. If you can’t afford a gym, it’s time to learn how to save. Grocery shop, and put $10 aside every week. Now you can afford a gym. There is no excuse. Bonus points: If you have a home gym, or create one. And now for this week’s rule: Stay sober all week. Beer? Quit it. Not one beer all week. We’re going to focus on fitness this week, and step one is being in the right mind, and in health. Hangovers are the number one killer of workouts. Stay tuned for tomorrow’s mission. http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/16k0hm/welcome_to_become_a_man_todays_mission_11413_get/ redpillschoolRedPillSchool is the head moderator of the forum http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill and and a fantastic saxophone player.More...

How Pre-Selection Affects Your Online Dating Profile

How Pre-Selection Affects Your Online Dating Profile

Jul 31, 2013

Pre-selection. Pretty much every tenet of game revolves around this concept. The idea is simple: Women want a man of value. The best indicator of a man with value is finding a man that other women are attracted to. It’s a meta signal, because men start exhibiting traits that demonstrate preselection instead of traits that show actual value in a mate. Strength, money, access to resources are actually beneficial to a potential mate. Instead, men find they can exhibit these meta-traits to attract women, because possessing these meta traits demonstrate access to women, who theoretically found him to display other traits of value (such as strength or access to resources). Of course, that means if you can learn to exploit preselection, you can more likely attract mates without necessarily possessing the actual traits that give a man value, only the ones that signal that others think you do! Being seen in public with a woman or multiple women is the standard of pre-selection social proof. Almost all the signals that game attempts to exploit are all attempts at hacking pre-selection, by giving the appearance of pre-selection when there is none actually happening: Abundance Mentality – playing it fast and loose with women because you don’t need any single one of them since you’ve always got more Displaying confidence – showing that this isn’t your first rodeo signals that you’ve been with other women Both of these fake pre-selection by displaying traits that would otherwise be present in people who have been pre-selected by other women. These hacks have been useful in creating what’s known as the gaming community or pickup community. But there’s a major game changer on the scene: Online dating. The Problem of Online Dating and Pre-Selection The problem with online dating is that it signals something very anti-pre-selection: You do not have a mate or options, so you are going online to find one. Even if it’s not true, there is an undertone that being online means you are unable to attract mates elsewhere. Naturally, the tendency of game-savvy men is to still attempt to game on their profiles. But it’s difficult if you don’t recognize the disadvantages of pre-selection in this context....