Alpha Up!

Alpha Up!

Oct 30, 2013

Welcome to today’s installment of Alpha Up! Without further adieu…   Question 1: I’m letting this girl from college stay in my dorm room until she gets her own because something happened with her living situation. I’ve had sex with her before but this time things seem different and she won’t talk to me much. She claims to be sick and has been skyping some other guy for the past two days. What should I do to change this dynamic? Answer: This time things seem different because her attention is elsewhere, namely the guy she’s Skyping. This doesn’t mean you can’t get some action, it just means you’ve got to dominate her time and attention more than he is. The problem is that she’s already gotten what she wanted, namely a place to stay. This is why I always advice guys to “get theirs first”. You’ve got to ask yourself what’s in it for you when women are seeking arrangements like this. Why are you investing (in the form of giving her a place to stay) without any investment from her in return? This is a very “beta” action, that is giving without receiving anything in return. Sure it’s a nice thing to do, but what about your own wants and needs are being met by this arrangement? My Red Pill take on this, as I explained above, is to make it known, either overtly or implied, that she’s going to have to ante up if she wants whatever it is from you. Now that you’re already in this situation here’s a few things you can do to really drive home the point you….expected certain things from this arrangement. First and foremost you’ve got to escalate physically. You’re already in isolation because you’re living together, so that’s in your favor. A statement of intent will also weigh heavily in your favor, such as saying something she does or is wearing is “sexy”. (followed by that physical escalation) She’ll probably shoot you down at first, but this is to be expected. Don’t be phased by it, just act cool, but try again a few minutes later. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. If it really...

Alpha Up! 1st Edition 8/30/13

Alpha Up! 1st Edition 8/30/13

Aug 30, 2013

Welcome to our first edition of Alpha Up!, Puerarchy’s own advice column for our Red Pill readers. If you’ve read my previous blog you’ll know I like to get straight to the point. On that note…    Question #1  “My greetings to you, and to all the red pill minded individuals out there. I have been an avid follower of the red pill and this newly formed ‘Puerarchy’ site. I would highly appreciate it if you answer my question. So here it goes, I have a close friend of mine that is turning Beta (maybe even Gamma), he used to be a text book Alpha until he met the girl he’s with right now. They’ve been together for almost two years, and I have observed their interactions for quite a while. She’s submissive at times, compulsive more often, and borderline batshit crazy on occasion. I tried to break it down to him in the form of advice but he got angry and didn’t want me speaking about it, it’s like he lives in denial. After a month or so from my initial attempt to bring him back to planet Earth, the rest of our group tried to talk to him about this, because it was going out of hand and they were really concerned about his well-being. I was glad to see that the rest of the guys had his back and even more glad that I wasn’t the only one seeing the damage that’s being done to him. In the past two years they have been seeing each other EVERY single day, at her request of course. She is choking the life out of him. She calls/texts all the time when she’s not with him, and she sleeps over almost every night (tampons in the bathroom and all that good stuff), she’s obsessed with him to a sickening degree, she declares that he’s her almighty God (I have heard this). Even when it’s a guys night out, all the guys including myself show up alone, except him, he drags her around everywhere! We’d be like 7-8 guys and her just because he drags her along to the fucking UFC fight (or she manipulates him to bring her) and this...